An Agressive Femme is a woman who is femme-identified, but has an aggressive side. She might be the one to initiate a relationship, or play a more active role in it than the stereotypical passivity associated with a femme. Also called an Alpha Femme. Agressive femmes are as likely to date a less aggressive stud as another femme. I’ve been called an aggressive femme.
*The author of this post is in no way implying that Mo’Nique is a Lesbian. As far as I know she’s strickly dickly.