Start the day here. No sooner had the guy left, then a vaguely Latin man gave me a big smile and waved me onto the floor. “Come dance with me!?” He requested genially. “Okay.” I replied, drawn to his positivity despite myself. “As long as you know that I’m a lesbian.” I did not feel [...]
FTM Saturday
I was at a cookout with my kids, when I looked up and spotted Mike, my childhood role-model. Only back then Mike was called Pam. Back when she was my dad’s roommate, Pam was a full-figured, confident queer pagan, with long brown hair and a penchant for wearing purple. She was really one of my [...]
Queer Boi Holding Hip Hop For Ransom
Check out this Boston Talent! I wish you could see him in person. Check this queer anthem out!
Butch Acceptance
I wanted to share my response to a comment on Why I Let Go Of Butch that is actually asking the opposite question: What I am trying to understand is how a woman can be comfortable identifying as butch. I’m talking about butches who have considered being trans, and have opted to stick with the [...]
On Intersex and Trans
I found this video and though I would share. I’ve edited this post (03-26-11) in response to some feedback that I’ve gotten. I’m 80% Girl, 20% Boy Though Adele is now pursuing gender reassignment surgery to become a woman, she muses as the film ends “I’ve lived 30 years of my life as a man, [...]
The Reluctant Femme
If I was to write a blog with a less confrontational name, I would call it “The Reluctant Femme.” I’ve never felt such pressure to be feminine since I’ve been actively engaging in the lesbian communities. I know I bring a lot of this on myself, since I seem to be attracted to bois, tombois, [...]
I’m Not a Stud-I’m Just Stud Curious
I realized that, dressed as I was, anyone could look at me and just know that I’m gay. And what a liberating feeling that was.
Psychological Dick
She does have some kind of crazy mojo between her legs, and part of the magic for some reason is my not seeing or touching it.
