The Closet Sucks! I just want to scream every time I hear about how someone doesn’t care what I do, as long as I don’t “rub it in their face.” So what exactly is rubbing it in your face? Mentioning my girlfriend? Commenting that I went to a lesbian club last night? Unless you’re reading [...]
Both Sides
I really appreciate the butch-femme dynamic–from both sides! See, even though I’m most often attracted to studs and butches–and love following on the dancefloor, having the door held for me, dinner paid for, etc., love, love love recieving in the bedroom–a part of me wants to be the one doing all those things. I’ve mentioned [...]
Young Stud
DZ from Studology 101: “You know you are a lesbian when you are physically, mentally and emotionally attracted to another woman.”
Between the Lines
I was waiting in the clinic with my daughter amidst a miasma of coughing, praying I didn’t catch whatever they all had, when an older Butch struck up a conversation with me. She was there with her daughter. (I’m guessing the girl was adopted, she was Asian, I’m guessing Thai, Vietnamese or maybe Cambodian, while [...]
My Awakening Part 1
I got my period for the first time at a Lesbian music festival. I was eleven. My mom decided to let me get my ears pierced in honor of my the few spots of blood in my panties marking my incipient womanhood. A gorgeous butch with sparkling blue eyes held my hands while her partner [...]
You Might Be A Lesbian If…
While kissing your boyfriend you keep thinking of how his mouth reminds you of eating pussy. After your boyfriend goes down on you you barely think about it the next day except to kind-of wish he hadn’t–but when a woman kisses you that night for less than three minutes you can’t stop thinking about her [...]
Coming Out in the 21st Century
I laughed…
More on Coming Out Christmas
After our little conversation we watched a movie. As I drowsed on the couch my eyes closed… visions of breasts and stomachs filled my brain. (I like thick women, and find stomachs sexy too–like a curving sexy landscape leading down to paradise) First I envisioned white C cups with cherry-like nipples like the actress in [...]
A Coming Out Christmas
My kids and I flew out to the Midwest to see my Dad and Stepmother for Christmas. It’s late, the kids are in bed, and we’re sitting around talking over beers: My Dad: “So, I feel like you’ve hardly been telling me anything about your life, what have you been up to?” Me: “Well, you [...]
